Well, my trip to Madagascar is all but over. On Friday, I’ll be going to Sahambavy to stay at the Lac Hotel with Gabe and Maribeth just for a fun ,relaxing mini-trip. Saturday I’ll be packing and then going to Karaoke night at Soafia one last time. Sunday, I’m off to Tana where I’ll stay until Wednesday. I won’t be doing much there but working on my internship report and avoiding going anywhere in the city.
The last month has really flown by, and it’s been a good one. It seems like just in these last weeks friendships have strengthened, little weekend trips have worked out, and I’ve started feeling more like a real resident here. Sophie and Zoe had me over for dinner on Sunday, and they gave me a set of beautiful hand embroidered sheets for a going away present. I was so touched…I didn’t expect anything, and I’m really going to miss having them as neighbors. It’s been so nice to have 2 girls who are my age who I get along with so well living above me. We’ve had a lot of nice times just hanging out on my porch talking about our days etc, and a lot of nice Sunday lunches together.
I’ll also miss Mariette, owner of the Snack. She just makes people so happy. She seems to have nothing but goodness in her heart, and whenever she feels that she’s shown any bit of negativity, she prays it away. I’ve spent a lot of time chatting with her as I come and go, and when I have a weekly lunch at the Snack. She gets such delight when people leave her restaurant satisfied (which is always!), and is one of the warmest people I’ve yet encountered. She’s done a lovely job starting a small business in the Old City, and now that the word is out, business is good. I hope it continues to prosper.
Both Gabe and Maribeth have become quite good friends too, although I wish Maribeth lived closer so that I could have hung out with her more often. While I’ll miss them both a lot, it’s also likely that I’ll see them again in the states, which helps.
And, of course, Karen and the girls. I don’t really know what I would have done without them here. I feel like they’ve become my honorary family here. Honestly, they’ve helped me on a lot of different levels. As an American living alone (sort of) here, I’ve appreciated all of the meals they’ve fed me, the places they’ve taken me, and the excitement we shared after the election. As a student, I appreciated all of the career advice I got from Karen, and the sharing of her own professional experiences. As a woman, I think it has been immensely softening for me to see an example of a very career oriented woman, with vast professional and educational expertise and experience, who is also a mother. It’s refreshing to see someone who delights in doing it all, rather than complaining, or declaring the injustices of it. Her daughters are absolutely lovely people, and it has instilled hope in me that having a family can bring much joy. I feel incredibly lucky to have become friends with these people.
Overall, I’m at the point where I’m ready to go. I’m very excited for my 5 days in Cape Town, and then to get home and see Patrick, my family, my friends, and my felines. Fun and exciting times are ahead too. Even though I’ve been on an adventure the last 4 months, I think that moving in with Patrick will be another adventure, if a different kind. My experience here has been immensely satisfying – I’ve seen and learned a great deal, developed wonderful friendships, and gained some good experience. But, I think it’ll be nice to stay put for awhile (I haven’t changed that much…awhile means like 6 months). Finish my thesis, graduate, and move onto the next thing. Don’t quote me on this, but I’m even looking forward to the coziness of winter. (I will be well over that by about January 5 I’m sure) I’m looking forward to getting back into my gym/exercies/training routine (and also dropping the 10 lbs I’ve gained here!), and going for walks in the snow with Patrick.
As usual, I’m getting rambly, so I’ll wrap it up. I’ll be home before I know it, and this chapter will be closed. Onto the next one. I wonder how the book will finish.
Incidentally, if anybody knows of anyone in the Portage, MI area who needs clerical help, French translating services, childcare, snow shoveling, odd jobs, waitress/bartenders, or most anything that doesn’t require some sort of certification, please pass the word my way.